I don’t understand mothers who tell their already insecure daughters that they have fat thighs, fat arms, etc when they clearly don’t! It doesn’t make sense to me. Aren’t you supposed to be building your daughter up, not tearing her down and making her feel like she can’t be good enough even to her own mother? If we keep heaping these impossible standards of beauty on even our own flesh and blood, where is the beauty in imperfections? Or learning to appreciate what we have? Or being beautiful from the inside? They are already insecure and unstable on the inside and you want to go and destroy how they feel about themselves on the outside too?